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Helen Flanagan hits back at trolls mum-shaming her over baby weaning

She received a lot of grief online over her decision

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Coronation Street star Helen Flanagan has made a dignified response to fans who have attacked her over her approach to parenting.

The 28-year-old came under fire from abusive trolls who ripped on her for choosing to feed solids to five-month-old daughter Delilah, insisting it was too early for the infant.

Six months is the age the NHS recommends for babies to start weaning.

But Helen, refusing to be mum-shamed, has defended her decision and laid out her reasoning to the mums who had a go at her.

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Helen with Delilah and fiance Scott Sinclair (Credit: Instagram @hjgflanagan)

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The mum-of-two also explained she had struggled with weaning eldest daughter Matilda, now three.

Expressing her shock at the vitriolic messages she has received, Helen said: “I like to be honest and open on my Instagram, I like to share my real experiences and it’s great if I can help other mums!”

She continued: “I’m not an expert but I do think each baby is different. Matilda was walking at 11 months and some little ones take longer with that but she wasn’t great with her food.

“I suppose they all go at their own pace.”

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We are weaning 💞! Xx With Matilda I waited till she was 6 months before I started weaning her and I just hated weaning so much 😩x Matilda would never ever take a spoon from me and had absolutely no interest in food until way past she was one years old, only had interest in milk x Everyone in my family tried to try to get Matilda to wean even my nanna😄. Weaning used to really stress me out, as a first time mum with Matilda I’d feel like argh what am I doing wrong why won’t she wean for me and I’d worry especially as she was a slim baby girl 😩 I always said with my second baby I’d start earlier with weaning just to get them used to it and I’d always said to my mum I hope I have a baby that will eat for me 😄x Delilah loves her food and the spoon so I’m so relieved and it’s so cute x I did baby led weaning with Matilda which has a lot of positives but it made me worried that my baby was going to choke at first and would at first only do the baby led weaning when Scott was home from training 😄x Which obviously they don’t choke if you look into baby led weaning but I wasn’t as confident with Matilda as I am with Delilah x Matilda is still not an amazing eater and me and scott are always trying with her food but I’m hoping Delilah will be great and I’ll be able to get Matilda eating vegetables x I’m going to make my own baby food too I tried it loads with Matilda but it all went to waste 😄 would love to hear how other mummy’s are finding weaning? I really feel like each baby is different, Delilah is five months next week and she seems really ready and really enjoying💞🍏🍌🍉🥦xxx

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The Rosie Webster star also explained she was keeping recommendations in mind when giving Delilah specialised fruit puree and noted she was still breastfeeding, too.

“I am still feeding her myself and will do as long as she needs,” Helen added.

“What works for me won’t work for someone else. It doesn’t make you a better mum whatever your choice of feeding.”

Requesting people lay off the mum-shaming, Helen also called on fellow mothers to support each because they know how difficult it is to raise children.

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Happy Monday 💞💘🦋xxx

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“I do think as mums we’re all in it together, we should support each other, it’s not a competition,” she continued in the post’s caption.

“We’re all just trying our best really, no one is perfect and we should uplift each other as women as it’s the best job but not always the easiest.”

Despite the negativity from some fans, many other mums offered Helen supportive comments.

“You really don’t have to justify yourself lovely,” replied one fan.

“I have my own views and opinions on weaning babies and weaning age, but that doesn’t mean I’m going to bash other parents because their beliefs are different!”

Helen Flanagan's day at the park with daughters Matilda and Delilah
Matilda gives her little sister some love (Credit: Instagram @hjgflanagan)

Another said: “Fair play to you because I got a lot of negativity when I fed my daughter at the same age but she needed it as she wasn’t keen on bottles.

“You’re doing a fab job and your girls are beautiful.”

And a third commented: “A mother/father knows their children better than anyone else.

“Do what’s best for your family, ignore the negative comments.”

What do you think of Helen weaning her baby at 5 months?

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So this morning I posted about weaning my baby girl at nearly 5 months and I got quite a lot of negative comments. I like to be honest and open on my Instagram, I like to share my real experiences and it’s great if I can help other Mums! I know a lot of Mums follow me so I wasn’t being irresponsible posting that I’m weaning my baby who’s nearly five months. I’m not an expert but I do think each baby is different. Matilda was walking at 11 months and some little ones take longer with that but she wasn’t great with her food. I suppose they all go at their own pace and Delilah is loving little baby fruit purées and is really interested 😄🍏xxx I’m only giving her little licks of the spoon not the whole packet and on the baby packages it says from 4 months onwards and no mum shaming please that I didn’t boil the fruit. I am still feeding her myself and will do as long as she needs x I breastfeed and my toddler is still in my bed 😄 but what works for me won’t work for someone else. It doesn’t make you a better mum what ever your choice of feeding 💘x I do think as Mums we’re all in it together, we should support each other, it’s not a competition. 💪💞 We’re all just trying our best really no one is perfect and we should uplift each other as women as it’s the best job but not always the easiest 💞 Beautiful coat and beret @emile.et.rose 💓

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Robert Leigh
Freelance writer